In my early 30′s I was making my name in the acting world, engaged to the man of my dreams, wearing the best clothes and rockin’ a hot bod. On paper my life looked perfect but I couldn’t enjoy any of fit. All I could see is what I didn’t have, hadn’t achieved, and honestly, I lived in constant criticism of myself.
Truth be told I felt like I was failing, and the pressure of trying to keep everything perfect was eating me alive inside. I was convinced I would be happy when….
The problem was I didn’t know that the I’ll be happy when… mentality was a set-up. And let me tell you, reality came crashing down.
It all changed the day I came home to my fiancé standing in our living room telling me that we could not get married. After 5 years together he left that day and I never saw him again. There I was for the first time in my life: alone. It was 10:30 pm on a Monday. I was 31 years old and clueless.
I was all of a sudden single, broke, lacking purpose in my life and totally thought this was all because I wasn’t pretty or successful enough.
What followed was a lot of searching for answers. How did I get here? How could I not see this coming? How did my life get so off track? I went to a lot of therapy, I exercised like a mad woman, went on many retreats, and I even saw a psychic folks -for real.
One day, on the treadmill, I was listening to Landslide (how good is that song?) and it hit me. This lyric: “Well, I’ve been afraid of changing cause I built my life around you.” Bam! Thank you Stevie Nicks!
I had built my life around other people—their expectations of me.
I decided to put in the work to find out what I wanted: a job I love, a mate that truly got me, food in my fridge that made me feel healthy, friends who enjoyed my wackiness, and a life that made me dizzy with excitement.
I set out to thrive on my own terms.
I began to surround myself with people who saw possibility. I owned what I brought to the table. I accepted that I was human and flawed and that my vulnerability was a strength. In short, I got real with myself.
I changed my own history and now I help other people do the same.
Often, we don’t know even where to begin, right? We get stuck in the same old routine and feel guilty that we want to have our cake and eat it, too.
The best part is you have all the resources you need to succeed!
I provide the other tools necessary to bake the cake (you know you love cake metaphors!). I work with women at any stage in their journey. I help them turn their breakdowns into breakthroughs. I help women find and keep love. I also work with mothers and the children they love because I truly believe that all these skills are profoundly easier to learn if we begin as kids.
I’m a relationship guru for all the loves of your life—self, love, kids, career—you name it. It’s a one-stop shop.
I believe you are capable and deserve of having it all. I believe you have the power to create a life you love. And I am psyched to take the journey with you!
You are so ready.